Ways to conquer a woman

Too ugly?

Here's how to turn your weaknesses into strengths and attract women

Are you a guy with a squeaky voice? Or maybe you have a face only your mother might like? Well, whatever, if you are worried and upset about your physical flaws, which prevent you attract women, then do I have good news.

Not only can you eliminate those flaws, but you can turn them into advantages. I'll explain how by bringing up an example of three guys who were winners in their time very successful.

So here's a trivia question for you. What do they have in common Steve Tyler of Aerosmith, the late rapper Eazy-E, and Curly of The Three Stooges?

The answer is they all had voices so high that if they wanted, they could have talked to someone on the phone and that person would not have known he was talking to a man.

It would have been simple for the three men become embarrassed and beta males who never had gone to bed and never even got a woman had spoken to them.

In fact, I have counseled many men who have limiting beliefs when it comes to things like your voice, your appearance, genetics, etc.. Name the feature, and there is always someone who uses that trait as a negative belief, which sabotages their chances of success with a woman.

However, despite their high voices, Tyler, Eazy-E, and Curly were all masters of a simple technique that turned that big flaw in a trademark that made them even more attractive to women.

Is a simple technique I learned when I studied Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), and help you as much as helped those three men.

To develop the confidence of my students, I learn and apply this concept. The concept is called reframing.

Here's how rethinking. Basically, you take every negative belief you have and turn it into a positive question, to raise. Do it like this:

1. "I feel bad about my voice" becomes "How I can use my unique voice as my own trademark that distinguishes me from other guys?" (That's what they did Tyler, Eazy-E, and Curly).

2. "My face is pitted with acne" becomes "What is totally amazing my face how can my lack of natural good looks actually help me with women?"

3. "I'm too short man" becomes "How I can use my height?" As you ponder your new questions, restated, in your mind, your brain will come up with answers for them.

For example, you might find that it is an advantage for you not being a "pretty boy". Women expect attractive rates to talk to them, then when you show the confidence to speak, his guards are down.

Do not expect you to try to lift them. That gives you a window of opportunity to show your alpha male personality, full of confidence.

Being a little guy can afford to gain rapport much easier with women than they can tall guys. Tall guys have a psychological communication barrier a lot of time because they are literally talking about a lot of women (on average tend to be more ponies than men) from a different level.

So remember, not your flaws that get in the way. Are your limiting beliefs that do.

Your ugly face does not get to know women. Instead, it is your belief about your face, which interferes with your inner sense of confidence. This lack of confidence is what women notice.

For a woman to feel attracted to a man, the level of confidence of a man is one of the most important traits you can have. You can be comfortable with yourself by turning your flaws from weaknesses into traits that set you apart from the bland types, ordinary.

Then I want to stop reading after this, take a pen (or open a blank document in your word processor) and write down your negative beliefs. Then write questions positive, uplifting you about how to turn those flaws into good things.

When you feel happy and comfortable with all of your traits, through the technique of reframing, you'll become unstoppable with your self-confidence. Earn the kind of confidence, and magnetically attract women to you.

John Alexander is author of "How to Become an Alpha Male" ... a seduction success guide for men.

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